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Celebrating diversity and fatherhood

Akiva Quinn
12:00am Tuesday, 23 August 2011

Fathers contribute to families and the welfare of their children in many ways: these diverse contributions are shaped by cultural and social factors that influence the priority of the different roles fathers play.

In some traditional contexts, fathers are viewed as the head of their families and assume primary responsibility for their children's moral or religious education.

More generally, the roles of fathers as contributors, alongside mothers, to the emotional and practical support of their partners and children, and to the economic security of the family, are now widely recognised.

Fathers provide secure, loving relationships that offer children emotional stability, good role models, support and guidance.  

They are companions, carers, protectors, teachers and nurturers, and these paternal roles complement the contributions of mothers. Research shows that fathers and mothers in fact influence children in similar ways: parental warmth, responsiveness, sensitivity and closeness lead to positive child outcomes in both cases, so children benefit from having two highly involved parents.

Fathers are more likely to engage in boisterous, stimulating or emotionally arousing play with children, and fathers are also more likely to interact with children in ways that "challenge" their linguistic and practical skills, helping to provide children with a "bridge to the outside world".

Fathers contribute to their children's cognitive, psychological and social development through play, shared activities, outdoor challenges, sports, adventures, helping with reading, or other school tasks.

Significantly, fathers provide important emotional and practical support to mothers who are caring directly for children, thus enhancing the quality of mother-child relationships, sharing the load for child-related housework, and modelling paternal involvement for children.

Where parents live separately or divorce, the role of fathers is no less important as children consistently fare better when they can maintain meaningful relationships with both parents, unless unusually high levels of inter-parental conflict remain.

Fatherhood is highly regarded and respected across diverse cultures within our society.

Relationships Australia Victoria invites everyone to join the celebration of diversity in families at the Father's Day BBQ Brunch on Sunday 4 September from 10am to 1pm at Riversdale Park in Camberwell.

This celebration of fatherhood and cultural diversity features free activities for the whole family with Sumo wrestling, a jumping castle, Sudanese dancers, Henna painting, an Afghan coffee ceremony, cricket and more. Please see the flyer for more details or contact dadslink@ymca.org.au.

*Akiva Quinn is DadsLink Coordinator

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