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Constructive look at men's relationships

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12:00am Tuesday, 5 June 2012

Next week is Men's Health Week, an excellent opportunity to focus on men's health issues in a positive way. What better time for men to have a look at their relationships - with their partner, children, family, friends - and see whether there are any cracks.

When it comes to relationship issues, our experience is that men are often baffled by some of the commonly-used counselling language and self-help terminology and may not seek help until it is too late.

Our booklet titled Renovate your relationship: a manual for men, produced with MenslIne Australia, helps men to think about the practical side of relationship maintenance and how to do it.

Renovate your relationship takes a positive and constructive view of what is required to identify problems and work to resolve them.

There's a lot of scope for planning, renovation, salvage around wear and tear, repair and rebuilding to stop cracks in a relationship getting too big and bringing the whole edifice tumbling down.

Maintenance and toolboxes don't feature much in the language of self-help books, but in many men's lives they are real currency. And in the relationship setting, they can provide useful images and ideas about what's involved in building and sustaining a solid relationship.

The booklet is a DIY manual for a renovation project - in this case a relationship renovation. There are 13 project tools in the DIY toolbox:

  • Working together?
  • Avoiding misunderstandings
  • Sharpen up your listening
  • Resolving conflict
  • When the roof blows off! Anger and frustration
  • Who has the power? Abuse and violence
  • Self-maintenance
  • Renovate your sex life
  • Love
  • Valuing differences
  • Appreciation
  • When trust breaks down
  • Children - planning for the extension.


Each tool comes with key points and checklists of things to consider and do, expressed in plain and practical language.

The booklet also includes reactions and thoughts from men about their relationships, and other sources of helpful information.

A call to action in the form of a renovation manual has a lot to offer men who are aware of the strains and gaps in their intimate relationships, but are unable to find good ways to help repair them.

Click here for the relationship renovation manual.

To get the full lowdown on Men's Health week activities across Australia, go to the website.

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