connectEDspace - support for young people

Young people can face all sorts of pressures – including problems at school, with friends or at home.
connectEDspace is a website by Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV), dedicated to young people to help provide all the information they need to deal with the stuff they go through each day.

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RAV provides support to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander families and individuals to help strengthen family relationships.

Counselling provides an opportunity to talk with a professionally trained person to discuss couple issues, conflicts with friends, relationship breakdown, parenting, domestic violence, anxiety, depression, grief, sexual problems, childhood sexual abuse, stress and work related tensions and disputes.

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Swear to make a difference

Dr Bickerdike
12:22pm Tuesday, 22 November 2011

Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) urges Victorian men to join this year's White Ribbon campaign and take the oath to stop violence against women: "I swear never to commit, excuse or remain silent about violence against women. This is my oath."

By making this simple but powerful pledge, men will send a strong message that violence is not acceptable and should not be tolerated under any circumstances.

RAV supports White Ribbon Day, 25 November, an annual event of the White Ribbon Foundation to engage men in the campaign to end violence against women.

One in three women experience physical violence in their lifetime, and one in five would experience sexual violence.

Violence not only manifests as physical or sexual assault, but also as the exercise of power and control which may include direct or indirect threats, emotional and psychological abuse, economic control, property damage and social isolation.

Sadly, women are at most risk of violence from people they know, and often within intimate relationships. Yet people often turn a blind eye to family violence where they would not tolerate an assault in a public place. The fact is, an assault in the home or in the street is the same thing.

Living with violence is like being on a roller coaster ride, causing confusion and anxiety and sometimes leading to reactions such as depression, medical disorders and drug and alcohol abuse. The impact on children is confusion, anger and fear.

RAV strongly encourages people to act and offer to help those who might be in abusive relationships.

It is also important that men who have committed family violence take responsibility for their actions and make genuine attempts to change their behaviour.

Changing behaviour is not simply a matter of 'turning over a new leaf'. Permanent change can occur when men are engaged in taking responsibility for their destructive behavioural patterns and making different choices.

RAV offers family violence prevention programs at our centres in Melbourne and regional Victoria, together with men's behaviour change groups. We also offer a range of services to support the safety of women and children in relationships where violence is present.

* Dr Bickerdike is the Chief Executive Officer of Relationships Australia Victoria

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